Resilience As A Shield And Creativity As Fuel
The Art Of Rising Higher With Every Challenge
Many individuals face self-doubt and feel lost due to life’s challenges, leading to a lack of direction and fulfilment.
This often results in missed opportunities for growth and dissatisfaction with one's life.
People may be surrounded by negative influences that drain their energy and hinder their progress.
But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Here’s my story of transformation and resilience—how I turned my challenges into stepping stones toward a brighter future.
CALM BEFORE THE STORM
In my teenage years, I experienced two pivotal moments that pushed me beyond what seemed possible and helped me achieve my dreams.
The first occurred during my adolescence. I was driven by pure curiosity and an energy that felt larger than life.
Whenever I followed my instincts, I found success again and again.
At that age, I didn’t realize how fortunate I was; I simply enjoyed my youth.
Those memories guided my choices, helping me discover what truly brings me happiness and fulfilment.
When you pursue your passions, life becomes beautiful!
I was content. I experienced success without pressure or expectations, engaging in activities I loved while surrounded by supportive friends.
My efforts brought immense joy and satisfaction.
Winning repeatedly can create a mindset where preparation feels unnecessary. I could relate to Mike Tyson’s determination, thinking:
Nothing can stop me.
There were no plans for the future, but confidence was deeply rooted in my heart.
Then life taught me a train of lessons.
YOU HAVE TO VALUE WHAT YOU HAVE!
This was the first and one of the most important, opening a new chapter in my life.
A DECADE OF LESSONS!
That period was marked by a journey through life’s challenges, including health issues. This forced me to create a new lifestyle, one that was completely different from what I knew.
Feeling lost and apathetic became my constant companions as I navigated this new reality, grappling with the pressure of having once succeeded.
It was a journey from glory to suffering.
It is incredibly difficult to reach the top, enjoy the breathtaking view and dive back down.
The view from the top was beautiful. And suddenly:
Lost and apathy hung their chains on me.
It was a moment of crystal clear understanding that getting back up again would be much more difficult than before.
However… I WAS STILL HUNGRY!
So, I decided to return to the life I had been denied.
And guess what? I accomplished it after confronting the most painful and difficult moment in my life—something that threatened to break me, something beyond my control.
It’s true: you never know where you gain or where you lose.
THE COMEBACK!
I simply R E F U S E D to give up.
I love to write and I will!
Pressure? Absolutely!
Broken? DOUBLE HA-HA!
But I didn’t want to repeat those harsh lessons, so I began to learn:
What happened?
Why did I fail?
What should I do differently?
This inquiry opened a new chapter in my life and filled it with personal development, spirituality, and an obsessive pursuit of growth in every aspect of my being!
Change doesn’t come into your life, it knocks on your door without permission.
And that changed me. The light in my eyes faded. Life transformed me into someone new. Although passion, joy and aspirations were as if torn out, I still believed I would recover!
After these lessons, I realized that:
The only thing I regretted was stopping my writing journey.
Before diving back into the fray, I explored various professions and subjects to compare them and reaffirm my path.
And guess what?
It was the moment when I truly plunged headlong into it.
Choosing to write was a clear decision, and I embraced it wholeheartedly. It was about doing the work and not viewing it as a challenge but a passion.
But I couldn’t just return to old habits. So, I devised a plan with multiple layers to make it IMPOSSIBLE TO FAIL!
NO OPTION TO FAIL!
I created challenges to grow, find joy, and evolve. Instead of being cautious and taking small steps, I tweaked the intensity to the maximum, defying everyone else advice.
This approach also prepared me for any future setbacks. I understood that I needed a justification for my mistakes. This was my response to the fear of failure.
I just broke the mould by adding additional difficulties.
AND I RAISED THE BAR EVEN HIGHER!
I no longer played the game of win or lose. I began my unstoppable growth.
Returning to writing felt daunting, as I feared starting from scratch again.
Challenges helped me expand my boundaries and start writing in a new language. I embraced this endeavour, which allowed me to grow beyond reliance on past successes.
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I made it impossible to fail by learning a new language.
Those who never try will never know.
I was so fired up by the change that I went all in. I began to acquire new skills and returned to the life I craved.
During my growth, I faced doubts that threatened to derail me. Journaling, spending time in nature for reflection, and extensive research became my tools for understanding myself.
I documented insights that helped me deconstruct my worries and craft affirmations to shift my mindset.
IMPACT OF LOVED ONES
Two things have significantly helped me overcome self-doubt: the love from my loved ones, who support my journey, and affirmations that reaffirm my worth.
This journey allowed me to benefit in every possible way. During this process, I fell in love with writing—not for validation or results, but for the sheer joy of it.
At some point, the sun disperses the clouds.
I started to rise again. It wasn’t easy anymore. Learning a new language isn’t a simple task. I understood the importance of patience and persistence.
Simultaneously, I began to refine my writing techniques. I realized I had regressed—from being praised to becoming invisible. And this led me to a new way of thinking:
“Steadily and confidently” became my mantra.
My passion reignited, and my obsession with rising above challenges consumed me.
Throughout this time, I had a plan! However, challenges kept piling up.
And guess what?
I grew tired of them and chose to rise above all obstacles.
NOTHING CAN STOP YOU IF YOU DECIDE TO RISE!
I began to pursue what truly mattered to me, step by step:
Career
Hobbies
Relationships
Spirituality
Personal development
Creativity.
I transformed everything with an insatiable thirst for progress. Nothing mattered to me anymore, except for one single thing:
AN OBSESSION with growth and development.
At first, I even struggled to figure out how to spend my free time, I was so obsessed with the idea of growth.
And guess what?
Progress came! One small win after another. The Universe again embraced me warmly.
HARMONY BEGAN TO RETURN
I stopped chasing societal norms and began to balance my life by doing what I loved and needed. I spent precious moments with those who truly mattered.
I find true joy when I spend pleasant moments with my loved ones, reading or watching something meaningful together.
Truly you become the one with whom you spend the most time.
This journey of growth forced me to rethink every relationship in my life.
I decided to distance myself from those who didn’t uplift me.
I ultimately discovered a few key individuals who were truly worthy of my time and energy.
I shifted from lighthearted gaming with friends to deeper, more meaningful conversations.
While I still cherish humour with loved ones, my social circle now encourages profound exchanges that reflect my growth.
Being different? Perhaps.
This was my goal to find my place in this world. I started to evolve in all aspects of my life and that's when I realized
GROWTH CAN BE PAINFUL!
Successes sprinkled throughout my journey, but I also stumbled and made mistakes.
My habits changed.
My social circle shifted.
My mindset transformed.
No more empty procrastination and relationships with those who didn’t value me. I was filled with obsession, thirst, and an unyielding drive to move forward.
Challenges are not a problem, they are opportunities.
Every change in my life happened because something challenged me. When you fight and you can't escape it, this is when you grow.
Something greater than me, a challenge that became the most difficult thing I faced—turned into my salvation.
It’s when I realized:
Your thoughts shape your reality.
It’s not just about the words we choose. It’s about how we perceive our circumstances.
When you’re surrounded by supportive individuals, every challenge turns into a stepping stone toward success.
MY MINDSET CHANGED
With a clear plan for my life and an action-oriented approach, nothing could hinder my growth.
The issue I faced before wasn’t the challenges themselves. It was my mindset and how I approached those challenges.
YOU HAVE TO LEARN FROM CHALLENGES!
If you learn from your challenges, you will improve and open yourself to new opportunities.
However, if you avoid them and view difficulties solely as negative, they will become obstacles in your life.
MINDSET IS EVERYTHING!
I am infinitely grateful to my friend’s mom, who introduced me to the Akathist of Saint Tryphon.
That changed everything for me. I began to explore the depths of spirituality, diving into everything:
Christianity
Spirituality
Numerology
I tried it all until I discovered what truly resonated with my soul. It helped me find faith in something greater and draw calm and peace from an infinite source.
The best way to change your thinking is to delve into spirituality and find what resonates.
For me, the best source of energy comes from morning prayer. It brings me peace, fuels my spirit, and propels me toward my dreams.
You can benefit from everything in life if you cook it right.
That’s why SPIRITUALITY became a significant part of my life!
I can confidently say that over the past year, I have made progress that I could not even dream of.
And much of my progress has come about thanks to the:
Exploring myself
Questioning my truths
Pushing beyond my limits.
Looking back three years, every bit of effort was worth it!
Rewards?
I am back in the writing game. I have those who stand by me. I love, I live, I am happy.
And the best part?
You may feel the same if you find what matters so much to you that everything else fades away, allowing you to see the lighthouse guiding you.
NO ONE CAN TELL YOU WHAT YOUR LIGHTHOUSE IS!
Others may ask questions, offer plans, and share their paths, but ultimately, YOU must choose.
Your gut is a lighthouse for your direction, people and life.
It’s all yours to choose.
I made countless mistakes in my journey but found my place and continue to rise through it all.
Here are three lessons I would share with my past self:
DON’T IGNORE YOUR GUT!
Follow your passions to avoid regret. Those lessons often hold deeper meaning than victories, even when a path leads to challenges.
Trust your instincts; they are your compass.
I’ve been there, and I can tell you—it’s simply miserable to ignore your intuition!
Fortunately, I learned to listen again.
And… YOU CAN TOO!
CHOOSE YOUR LIFE DIRECTION!
You can’t find happiness without evaluating what truly matters to you.
If you don’t choose your dreams, others will choose for you.
So, I urge you to select your dreams to avoid repeating my mistakes.
Take charge of your life direction, surround yourself with the right people, and choose the lifestyle that resonates with your soul.
YOUR SURROUNDINGS SHAPE YOUR FUTURE!
The quality of your life is reflected in those around you.
There are the right people around you if you feel supported, motivated and genuine desire to take action.
Conversely, if each interaction leaves you feeling drained, it may be time to reconsider those relationships.
Ultimately, only you can decide who will be in your life. People can uplift you or bring you down—choose wisely.
Thank you for reading my story.
As you move through the labyrinths of life, do not forget about one vital truth:
DREAMS COME TRUE!
If you believe in yourself and take consistent action, life will change. Not through random miracles but through your determined efforts.
You don’t have to wait for challenges to knock at your door!
Instead, you can create your challenges and set the difficulties that will lead you to the desired life.
By actively pursuing your goals, you will rise higher and achieve greatness.